Whether we approve or not, many South Sudanese men and Women wish (sometimes subconsciously or quietly) to find someone who can be a “breadwinner” for various reasons so they can stay home to raise children, focus on a dream career that has yet to produce reliable income, or simply for material comfort. And as more women become financially successful, fewer of them are interested in “gold digging”, but male “gold diggers” are becoming more common.
If you feel that financial security is the most important factor in choosing a partner to share your life with, you can (and should) approach the matter with sensibility and charm.
 Meeting Mr. or Mrs. Moneybags
Find out who the rich are in your area and scope them out. Unless you’re looking for a fly-by-night sort of thing, you’re probably limited to those millionaires and billionaires in your area. Find out who they are (by name, that is) and study their habits. Essentially you’re developing a plan for how to “run into them” time and time again.
You’ll want to know where they work, where they hang out, if they have pets, their favorite artists, charities, music, and even vacation spots. Don’t know where to start? Well, it’s illegal pretty much everywhere to stalk someone in person, so Google is a good bet.
 Hang out where the elite hang out. Once you do find out where the elite hang out (or where your specific target hangs out), go there. Start walking your dog on the same path, shop at the same grocery store (if they do their own shopping, of course), and hit the same clubs. Eventually the haven’t-I-seen-you-around question will become imminent.
Make sure that whatever you do, you dress the part. No sugar mommy or daddy wants to take a scrub from rags to riches. They want someone that can appreciate the finer things in life and knows a bit about them. If you’re on their turf, do your best to fit in.
 Attend upscale events, venues and open houses. It’s a little insane (literally) to mirror your target’s schedule down to the T, so spice it up with living like they do. Or if you don’t have a target, this is a good way to find one! Attend fancier events like gallery openings, theatre galas, and VIP nights at clubs and restaurants. Sprinkle in open houses throughout your day and you’re bound to make a few connections if you can hold a conversation, of course.
This is just half the battle once you get there, you have to have something to say. And unfortunately, life isn’t a Disney film: it’s unlikely Prince or Princess Charming is going to just come up to you and offer up their pockets full of gold. Something standard like, “How come we’ve never met? I see you walking your dog at the park all the time,” is sturdy and not at all creepy. Let the sparks fly from there.
(4) Go online. It certainly says something about our culture that gold-digging is slowly becoming acceptable. The number of websites devoted to it that are springing up reflects that, too. If you can’t find one of your own accord, go online. There’s singles websites for Christians, for farmers, for Christian farmers, and there are definitely a handful for those looking for a pretty penny. Just be careful you don’t become ingrained in a scam. Doing anything online is dangerous never give away your private information and never give anyone money you don’t absolutely trust.
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